The Power Of “Getting It”

The philosopher Ludwig Wittgenstein pointed out that “A man will be imprisoned in a room with a door that’s unlocked and opens inwards as long as it does not occur to him to pull rather than push it.” Tune in to see why understanding how things actually work changes everything for the better!

01:45- Understanding vs Trying to change behavior
16:45- Recovering from relapse
23:30- The problem with trying to control your thinking
34:30- The gift of a sense of security
43:40- Realizing you don’t control the universe
50:00- A whole new way of being in the world

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